By MaryClaire Dale
GETTYSBURG, Pa. (AP) – A man who sent a Facebook message stating, “So I raped you,” to a woman he later pleaded guilty to sexually assaulting on a Pennsylvania college campus was sentenced to two to four years in prison on Monday.
The judge considered Ian Cleary’s guilty plea, his remorse, and his long history of mental illness in handing down a sentence below state guidelines. Cleary, 32, said he sent the messages as part of a 12-step program, hoping to seek atonement.
However, victim Shannon Keeler told the court that the messages only reopened wounds she had carried for years over the assault, which had gone years without prosecution.
“The system meant to protect me protected you instead,” said Keeler. In a powerful 10-minute impact statement, she detailed the years she spent pursuing charges—efforts often met with reluctance from prosecutors in campus sexual assault cases.
“This isn’t just my story, it’s the story of countless women,” she said.
Cleary faced a maximum of 10 years in prison for the 2013 attack on Keeler at Gettysburg College. Initially, the two sides had proposed a four- to eight-year sentence. Andrea Levy, Keeler’s lawyer, said the sentence was “less than what we expected and certainly less than he deserves.”
Senior Judge Kevin Hess remarked that anyone with daughters or granddaughters in college would find the crime “horrifying.” Nevertheless, he said, “The defendant has admitted his guilt, he’s come forward, and even though 10 to 11 alarming years have passed in the meantime, we wouldn’t be here today but for his hope for some kind of forgiveness and contrition.”
According to Keeler, Cleary sneaked into her first-year dorm on the eve of winter break when few people were left on campus. He pushed his way into her room and assaulted her.
Cleary left Gettysburg after the attack and ultimately finished college in Silicon Valley, California, where he grew up. He then earned a master’s degree and worked for Tesla before moving overseas.
Years later, he sent the Facebook message to Keeler, prompting her to renew efforts with police and prosecutors to file charges. In 2021, she shared her experience in an Associated Press story highlighting the reluctance of prosecutors to pursue campus sex crimes.
Cleary was indicted weeks after the AP story was published. Following a three-year search, he was extradited from Metz, France, where he had been detained on minor, unrelated charges, in April 2024.
Standing just a few feet away in court on Monday, Cleary apologized to Keeler and his family. “I’m committed to getting treatment for mental health and stuff like that as I go forward,” he said.
In interviews with the AP, Keeler described her decade-long effort to persuade authorities to pursue charges, beginning just hours after the assault.
“I had been thinking about this moment for 12 years,” Keeler said after seeing Cleary in court in July when he pleaded guilty to second-degree sexual assault. She called it a surreal moment.
Authorities in the U.S. and Europe tried to track Cleary down after the indictment but appeared unable to follow his trail online or otherwise until his arrest in the unrelated case.
In court in July, defense lawyer John Abom said Cleary was homeless at times and unaware of the charges. Adams County District Attorney Brian Sinnett said he had his doubts but could not prove that Cleary was on the run.
Cleary’s family members have declined to comment and did not attend most of his court hearings. However, his father was present at Monday’s sentencing.
The AP typically does not name people who say they have been sexually assaulted unless they come forward publicly, as Keeler has done.
“There’s a lot of joy in just the relief that this is over, and Shannon’s going to be able to turn the page and move on with the next steps of healing,” her lawyer said.
Originally Published: October 20, 2025, at 6:08 PM CDT.
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